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Wednesday, November 03, 2004
She called me late tonight 'cause she still worry about the freaky wife. The wife had been stalking her for the last few days and kept mumbling something bad in cantonese every time she passed by her cube. Sigh... She's worry so I had to kinda escort her to different places. She called to ask two questions: 1. Should she push him to file the application sooner? I told her that she shouldn't do that 'cause she'll feel guilty about the fact that he's breaking up his marriage just for her. I wanted her to just wait for him volunteerily file for the divorce. That way, he's doing it 'cause he doesn't want to be in his old relationship anymore, not because he wanted to start another relationship with her. 2. Had she been too passive toward him? Oh yeah, she had been. She felt guilty, uncertain, and even little bit scare about the whole thing, that's why she hadn't been able to stand up and speak her mind like she used to in front of me. She couldn't really show the side of her that I'm used to seeing 'cause she's afraid of having no idea how he'll react. I told her that it'll take time for her to build up the courage, and time is something that they still have some to spare. So just let herself naturally summon up the courage to face him and tell him how she feels. Sigh... Why am I her relationship advisor? :( Sigh... I really need to see a therapist or something. Well, at least I should see a doctor since I'm feeling body ache and cold right now, a sign of incoming cold/fever. Hope my body is strong enough to fight it off.
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