Everybody always said ''til the day hell freezes over''. But has it ever freeze over? Contact me if you want to discuss anything hellfreezeover666@yahoo.com . Not that anybody actually read this blog. I'm just as lonely as ever. From a pathetic fool in HELL!!!

 
Well, I ended up not having breakfast with her on Tuesday morning. But that was minor problem compared to what happen the rest of the week.

So on Wedensday night, while I was busy working, got a frentic phone call from her. She told me that the wife is outside of her house and she's hearing bang coming from the front windows of the house. She was obviously scared and wanted me there ASAP. So I rushed out and started driving toward her place. Then I got another phone call from her and she told me that the wife had been throwing rocks at her house. She was panicking and wanted to call the cops. I told her to just hold on and wait for me to get there, and don't open the door under any circumstance 'til I'm there. I got to the house and saw the wife outside, went up to her and ask why she was there. (I didn't really have any choice but to confront her and try to resolve the issue.) She told me the husband's mom was sick and that she wanted to talk to the husband. I told her the husband wasn't there and that he may still be traveling. She told me that she heard from a coworker that the husband is already back and since he didn't move his car, he must'd went to C's house. So I told her it didn't matter whether the husband was there or not, she had no right to harass C and she need to just calm down. She wanted to make sure the husband wasn't there before she leaves. Well, I was out there in the cold, argueing with her and at the same time trying to calm C down (yeah, poor old me). Finally after more than half hour of going back and forth (in the cold for me, since I was wearing short sleeves), we finally agreed to have me going to her house and checked to show the husband wasn't there . I checked and he wasn't. So I got back down stair and escorted the wife out of C's garage while she's screaming words like "slut" at C. Sigh... The things I do for a friend. Do I really love her, I don't really know, but I know this, I still want to see her happy, and as long as that's the case, I'll stand by her as always. Later that night, I went over to her house again to just make sure the wife didn't return.

For the next two days, C had been quite paranoid with the wife. We tried to ignore her as she shout at us when we walked by her. I escorted C to pretty much anywhere and just in general making sure that she felt safe and sound. That night, she went and had dinner with the husband. Of course since my ranking on the priority list, the only thing I was allowed to do was went over to her house again to check on any possible spy. Well, they did treat me to lunch at the usual Japanese restaurant, which I was quite reluctant to go but she really insisted on me going. I know she wanted me to talk to the husband and think of a way to resolve the situation. But I felt somewhat uncomfortable about that and just didn't think it's my place to make suggestions to the husband. Especially since I wan't supposed to know quite a few things with their relationship.

On Friday night, she and the husband and some other coworkers were going to have dinner together. Well, as we walked to my car, she followed us and were cursing at us with the usual stuff, all the way to the fourth floor of the garage. I was impressed by the fact that she never even ran out of breath :P And after we went to get some pearl tea, as usual, I escorted C back to her car. And then follw her all the way to Castro street to make sure she got to the lunch place without being followed. I went on to my friend's bday party at Miyake and had a blast. I had four rounds of sake bomb and proved to everyone that I can still drink :) After the nice party and some chatting with friends, I did the usual, went to check on her house. Not so surprisingly, I found the wife sitting in her car, waiting for C to come home. I think that she saw me driving by. I warned C and told her to becareful. Since C was going to watch a movie with the husband, I decided to check on the house again after she's done with that. Around 1am in the morning, I went over to her house, walking around the house and up and down the street in the rain with an umbrella, checking to make sure the wife is not around. So I waited 'til she came home and got her mail before I left. Then I got cut off 'cause the husband called and she didn't called back 'til like 2:15am. Apparantly the wife was threaten to burn down her house and was at home burning the husband's books.

It gets even worse, C left for Chicago this weekend. To my relieve, she'll only be here couple of days in the next two months so the chance of confrontation is slim between her and the wife. But for me, I had work with the wife and her group next week :( Even worse, according to C's text messages, the wife is accusing me of pushing her. Well, there was physical contact when I escorted her out of C's garage. So if she wanted to held me liable for that, then we can see each other in court. And apparantly she had threaten C's life. Sigh... She needs some sort of consuling. Otherwise, this thing will exploded and somebody will get hurt. This is where I really really HATE the husband for being such a wimp. There must be someone he could call upon to help the wife thru this situation. Instead, the only thing he does was wanting to continue dating C and avoid the responsibility of keeping his wife in check. I'm so fraustrated at this and there's nothing I can really do about it. I didn't want to tell C or confront the husband since that'll put C on a tough spot and putting more stress on her, which is something I don't want to see. But yet, I'd been carrying the responsibility of keeping everythings in check, coming out with resolutions for the situation, doing the nightly house call, while the husband is enjoying a budding relationship. He's enjoying the reward while I'm getting the penalty of his infidelity. Sigh... Why am I doing this???

Dad's 60th bday is coming up and I had to get gifts. So I recruited the help of D. We went to shop yesterday and was a bit surprised that she actually knew the sale of Tiffany's. It was quite a nice day where we just chatted about everything, from my lastest stalking incidents to the history of our families. We talked about our friends, our families, and our vision of the future. I teased her on the shopping and she teased me on the facial and other stuff. I think she was a bit upset that I had to call my sis up to confirm that the gift she had choosen is okay. Of course I apologized and explain right of way the reason, which was because the gift was supposedly from me and Sis so I had to check with her first. I really do enjoy spending time with her 'cause it's just quite relaxing, as long as I don't express my admiration of her, I can talk about anything I want. Though I'm tempted from time to time when her version of a good bf come up and I felt that I fit that mode quite well. If I didn't have the problem of C, I really would had consider taking a shot at it. But since she knew about the whole C situation quite well (she and Sis knew the most), I couldn't in good conscience suggesting the idea right now. Especially since she just broke up with her ex and still kinda recover from that. Our relationship is quite weird but at the same time we just knew each other so well and always had fun just hanging out together. Only if we could goto Europe together, that would've been a blast. Now, I'm limited to plan for ski trips this winter. Well, at least I'm allow to do something with her :) I also know this, if it wasn't for her, I would be in lot more stress. Thanks to her, I'm actually enjoying my weekends a bit more :)

posted by HELL at 14:59